another unexpected curve ball

So i thought I had well and truly said goodbye to the unexpected. I contemplated telling him I missed him today, decided against it. Thank goodness I did. I instead asked him something fairly important about the house keeping that comes at the end of any relationship. Who gets the dog and all that malarkey. This was a nice housekeeping thing, I had bought him a present to cheer him up before things went Pete tong and wanted to pass it to him via someone.

Then he threw me a curve ball. Essentially saying, knowing that I considered us over, that he is angry, he was busy, he wants time to cool down and would speak to me to try and work things out in a few weeks.

WTF!

So he disappears without a trace having not been considerate for the gazillionth time, and he's angry at me?! On what grounds?! Oh yes, this would be the part where I am left in the dark and he isn't. Pffft :p

Having decided that it's not important enough to shed at least a little light on the situation for the moment, he then decides the course my life is going to take for the next few weeks by saying he will be ready to discuss his own agenda in a few weeks. Forgive me for thinking this is extremely presumptuous.

Oh yes because I will really fall over my feet to accommodate someone who seemingly doesn't even have enough respect for me to keep me posted about things that greatly affect me.

"I didn't want to sort it, so you had to call it off, but that's not good enough for me and makes me angry, but i don't care to tell you even basically why at the moment. All that matters is i know the full story and can assess it, then when I deem necessary, I will think about it and tell you why you were the cow. And when I tell you why you should agree with me and retract your resignation from my life"

"Yes you should wait for me, but no I'm not going to give you reason to, you should just wait."

The gall!